A community for the ace spectrum
Each event.
Eight people. Eight minutes each.
The Ace Connect is a verified, private, video speed-dating community for the whole asexual spectrum — straight, gay, lesbian, bi, pan, poly, and aromantic aces alike, of every race, religion, and background. An AI matchmaker plans each night and pairs you with members within ten years of your age. You show up, have real conversations, and only your first name, last initial, or a real-life nickname appear on screen.
- Rounds
- 8
- Minutes each
- 8
- Community
- Ace only
How a night with The Ace Connect actually works.
- 1
Verify you're you
Every member confirms their identity with government ID and a selfie before joining an event. Verified only, always.
- 2
Build a private profile
Your full profile is visible only to the AI matchmaker who plans your event. During dates, others see only your first name + last initial (or a nickname).
- 3
Eight dates, eight minutes
You conversate with 8 different matches, 8 minutes each — paired within ten years of your age. Rooms auto-swap. No pressure, no scrolling — just people.
- 4
Only mutual matches connect
After each round you note who you'd like to see again, and why — dating, friendship, or networking. If it's mutual, we share contact info. Otherwise, nothing.
Safety isn't a feature. It's the foundation.
Ace-specific spaces are rare, and they need to feel safe from the first tap. Every choice in The Ace Connect starts with the assumption that your identity, your data, and your time deserve protection.
Verified members only
Real people. Real names on file with us — nicknames and last initials on screen for you.
Your profile is private by default
Public profile pages don't exist here. Nothing about you is searchable or scrollable outside a curated event.
Mutual-consent reveals
Your email and phone are shared only after you and another member both pick each other for the same reason — dating, friendship, or networking.
Ace-only, every background welcome
Zero tolerance for aphobia, coercion, or sexualization of ace identity. Every race, religion, culture, and background belongs here — the only shared thread is the ace spectrum.
State-specific nights, tailored to who you actually want to meet.
Every event is scoped to one state so introductions can turn into real friendships or dates. Themes reflect romantic orientation and intent — never race or religion. Every night is open to members of every background.
- NJ Ace Singles — open to all identities
- California Ace + QPR Night
- Texas Aromantic Ace Meet
- Florida Ace Tribe & Chosen-Family Circle
- New York Ace Lesbian Mixer
- Illinois Demi & Gray-Ace Mixer
- Washington Bi / Pan / Poly Ace Night
- Georgia Gay Ace Evening
- Massachusetts Straight Ace Singles
Your night is being planned by a matchmaker, not an algorithm scrolling itself.
Create your private profile. We'll only ever show your first name, last initial, or a real-life nickname to other members — and only after our AI matchmaker chooses your rounds.